Opportunities - Not Simply

Hi my beloved readers... Here, I'm back with my latest post. 


Do you ever notice how hard is it to get an opportunity or maybe to aware of it?
I believe that some of you do notice. A little  bit info for you all - there are good opportunities as well as the bad ones. You have to know the difference. The good ones, of course, those which bring a good turning point in your life, not be like the wrong ones, which can make your life even worse. Not all the opportunities are easy to get, aware of and to distinguish and vice versa.


In order to get an opportunity, you have to carve for it. Many people tend to have a mindset that an opportunity comes by itself when the time is right, but actually it is not a wrong thing if you could make its way easier and faster to find you. The harder you find them, the easier you get them and know better which are positively influential enough in your life. The next thing you have to do is to act smart when offered an opportunity. See will it be good enough for you or not. 


Opportunities will always come, no matter how many times, as long as you are a "good catcher". So in my view, there is no "Opportunity only comes once". Start to search, find and dig for opportunities, then decide which are the best for you and people around you. 


Thank you :) 
Have a beloved day, my beloved readers!

Holiday, let's make the most of it!

You know the feeling, when you have finished everything in your college or school and ready to welcome a long damn awesome holiday. How hilarious is that?  Even though you are not really sure if your holiday would be awesome enough like what you expect. But, you sure have the to-do list during your holiday.

By the way, I've just finished my whole Diploma course and will be going to attend the Advance Diploma soon. So that's why I want to share a bit of my free-as-bird feeling with my beloved readers and how should a real holiday be like.

As a Media student, I want my holiday activities to be around media. Not denying the TV and Internet. You don't say! :D I think, not only "think" but will go to make the most of it. Engage in more positive activities that would bring a good outcome for me. 

Yeah, we should make the most of it. Even though it is a holiday, when most of us assume that it is the only time to enjoy ourselves, but still if you enjoy yourself by wasting your time, it will be useless for you and your life. Make the most of it doesn't mean you also have to waste till the most of it, right?

I suggest you as a young human being to occupy your holiday with things like reading books, write, do some sport, social works, travel or pursue the things that you have done yet because of your tight schedule before. There are a lot of things you can do if you find, want and try to do. Just do not waste your holiday, because time is too precious to be wasted just like that. 

So people, enjoy your holiday and have fun! :)

One-sided lovers. Who to blame?

Actually, this is the continuation from my last post. Do you remember people? You are welcome to sneak a peek at my last post. :)

So, after having a thought that one-sided love is not only experienced by me amongst billions and billions people on the earth. Maybe their stories are worse than mine.

For us, who get struck by one-sided love, surely know how it feels. Sometimes, we "loose' our mind and blame the one we love, blame ourselves, blame our competitors, blame the others who even do not have any connection with us, blame life, and blame God.

In my case. I cannot blame him because he doesn't know that I love him. I can blame myself for not telling him, but still cannot because I am a girl, plus I am not that close with him. What he might think about me then. So shameful for me. It is my principle. Blame my heart to fall for him? A big NON-SENSE. Should I blame the girls those are qualified than me? For a moment, YES and Maybe. But NO, I am perfect in my own way.

Conclusion, I'm tired of finding a good target to blame.

So, wake up, peeps!! Blaming is not a solution. I remember, my crush's sister said that if we are meant to be then, we will be together. Yes, this is quite right. Let us ask the time, how it will do everything. When the time is right, everything will be right. Let's say if you are becoming far far way from him or her, you should forget about them, even though I know it's not easy to forget just like that. At least you can try. But the choices are yours, because you know better than anybody else. Just go with the flow. Love cannot be forced.

"Love is like a butterfly. If you try to chase it. It will keep flying away. But when you let it go, it will keep coming to you." - Unknown

One-sided Love. I have and am experiencing.

Hmm...
It is a bit awkward I posted about LOVE, but considers the name of this blog is "What We (I) Feel", so maybe I should. By the way, this is also my own experience which most of my friends know but they might never know the true feelings that I feel inside of me.


Here, it goes.


I fell in love with a guy. Let me describe him. He is tall, thin, almost curly haired, fair skinned, brilliant, friendly, kindhearted, humble and the worst part is he is popular. Why is it worse? Because that is why, he has many women chase after him. And me, is just so-so. I cannot say myself is pretty, beautiful or like such. I am not even can be compared to him. But one thing I can say is that I am really in love with him, even though  I did not really believe that it is love, because it could have been just a crush like every girl has in their teenage. After a few months == this quote caught my eyes.

It said like that and yeah, confirmed it was and is a love. I cannot control myself for putting a thing called "LOVE" in my heart towards him. So so so in love. I cannot describe how did it feel at that time. I hope, you guys know that. Yeah, it is all about joy, happy, peaceful, beautiful and dreamy, when you are falling in love. That love is the one has me in faith that maybe he also can feel the same thing for me but in fact, I was too far from the expectation. I think, I am being one-sided. Yes, one-sided for real. One-sided for three years, is not a simple thing to face. I was fed up. Sometimes, I feel that I am over him but when I see his pictures, then I realize, it becomes stronger. 


However, I cannot do anything. He actually doesn't know that I like him, ooops, not like but love him, I am not close with him too. I don't want to tell him, because I'm a girl and I'm afraid I might screw everything, as well as the fact he might think about me. FYI, that love still remains till now, never fade. Maybe it will, sometime. But when, not sure!


For all of my wonderful readers, have you been one-sided before?