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03 July 2012

One-sided lovers. Who to blame?


Actually, this is the continuation from my last post. Do you remember people? You are welcome to sneak a peek at my last post. :)

So, after having a thought that one-sided love is not only experienced by me amongst billions and billions people on the earth. Maybe their stories are worse than mine.

For us, who get struck by one-sided love, surely know how it feels. Sometimes, we "loose' our mind and blame the one we love, blame ourselves, blame our competitors, blame the others who even do not have any connection with us, blame life, and blame God.

In my case. I cannot blame him because he doesn't know that I love him. I can blame myself for not telling him, but still cannot because I am a girl, plus I am not that close with him. What he might think about me then. So shameful for me. It is my principle. Blame my heart to fall for him? A big NON-SENSE. Should I blame the girls those are qualified than me? For a moment, YES and Maybe. But NO, I am perfect in my own way.
Conclusion, I'm tired of finding a good target to blame.

So, wake up, peeps!! Blaming is not a solution. I remember, my crush's sister said that if we are meant to be then, we will be together. Yes, this is quite right. Let us ask the time, how it will do everything. When the time is right, everything will be right. Let's say if you are becoming far far way from him or her, you should forget about them, even though I know it's not easy to forget just like that. At least you can try. But the choices are yours, because you know better than anybody else. Just go with the flow. Love cannot be forced.

"Love is like a butterfly. If you try to chase it. It will keep flying away. But when you let it go, it will keep coming to you." - Unknown